Are you getting anything out of your networking? If not, you may want to redirect your networking efforts. Going to an event for the free cocktails or for the random single and mingle is not networking effectively…sorry folks.

Networking, by definition is the practice of gathering of contacts: the process or practice of building up or maintaining informal relationships, especially with people whose friendship could bring advantages such as job or business opportunities. When attending a networking event, be prepared, be distinctive, and be attentive. It is imperative that you’re paying attention, remembering names, faces, who and what.

Contribute to conversations; have interesting things to say. Be the expert that everyone is looking for. Please note; this does not mean be the arrogant, know-it-all who speaks louder and over everyone else. Be professional; be friendly! Oh, and most of all, be approachable! Remember and be remembered!